Nervous System Practices

Practice 1: Self Havening Touch

A gentle psychosensory practice to support nervous system regulation and emotional safety.

  • Sit comfortably or remain standing in a relaxed position.

  • Begin by orienting to your environment—notice something neutral or pleasant around you.

  • If helpful, bring to mind a sense of “safe enough” or a calm place.

  • Using your hands, apply slow, gentle touch to your body.

  • Start by placing your palms at the center of your forehead.

  • Gently stroke outward across the forehead toward the temples.

  • Move to the hairline or scalp, continuing slow outward strokes.

  • Bring your hands to your cheeks, moving from the bridge of the nose outward toward the ears.

  • Next, cross your arms and place your hands on opposite shoulders.

  • Slowly stroke downward from shoulders to elbows.

  • Keep the touch soft, steady, and rhythmic.

  • Allow yourself to both give and receive the sensation of touch.

  • If it feels supportive, continue for 3–5 minutes.

  • Pause and notice any shifts in sensation, mood, or breath.

Practice 2: Butterfly Tap

A bilateral stimulation practice to support regulation and reinforce feelings of safety.

  • Sit comfortably with your spine upright.

  • Cross your arms over your chest so each hand rests on the opposite shoulder.

  • Begin gently alternating taps—left, then right.

  • Keep the pace slow and steady, finding a rhythm that feels comfortable.

  • As you tap, bring attention to a sense of safety, calm, or “safe enough” in your body.

  • Continue tapping for 20–30 seconds.

  • Pause and notice any sensations, emotions, or shifts in your state.

  • If the experience feels steady or supportive, repeat for another 20–30 seconds.

  • You may complete 2–3 rounds.

  • When ready, allow any imagery or focus to soften into the background.

  • Take a slow, deep breath.

  • Gradually return your awareness to the room.

You can either view the information here on line, or download the Week 6 lesson pages